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Although Kelly knows perfectly well that etiquette says someone else should host, she's planning something catered, with live musicians - something that their couple friends will have a blast attending. A graphic designer friend is designing the custom stationery, and Kelly adores picking over all [url=http://www.montresidole.fr]moncler doudoune[/url] the details: she's just ordered cupcakes with hand-quilted buttercream and sculpted mini-sailboats. The couple already has what they need for baby, so they'll request "no gifts" on the invite, even though some people will ignore it.
Seeing the need, her friend Lauren generously volunteers to play hostess. Immediately, Madison gives her a guest list of 75 people. This puts Lauren in a bind, since her house isn't large enough, [url=http://www.sandvikfw.net/shopuk.php]hollister sale[/url] but Madison suggests hosting the shower at a restaurant instead.
Moral of the story: The perfect situation and perfect etiquette led to a warm and loving shower that Mom-to-be and friends will remember forever.
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2) Madison's Chic But Troubled Shower
The shower's a complete success, with Tana getting some much-needed items and a fat stack of diapers. She thanks her hostesses for their hard work and kindness, and presents them all with a lovely gift.
Tana doesn't realize it, but her baby shower situation's more classic than Classic Coke, so it's going to be a breeze to pull off. She's 21, and her husband was recently deployed. She lives on base and is mostly broke, but she's rich in friends! They want to help celebrate this huge life event by hosting her shower.
Kelly, 37, is an intellectual-property attorney [url=http://www.pollinate.it]moncler outlet online[/url] on track to make partner within five years. This is her first (and by plan, her only) baby, and she and husband Josh couldn't be more excited. They've spent scores of hours planning the nursery, and they want to celebrate together with their closest friends.
By now it's probably pretty clear how to steer through these waters and retain old friends. If you can honestly let go of the process, enjoy a simple, old-fashioned shower and avoid overburdening your BFFs, then lucky you! Your nearest and dearest get the chance to show their [url=http://www.villacannizzo.it]hogan outlet[/url] love [url=http://www.pollinate.it]moncler outlet[/url] and friendship - and make a big difference to you and your newborn.
In the meantime, Madison - wanting the perfect event - is calling up Lauren and "suggesting" she buy the favors Madison picked out, leaving hints about linens and a two-tier fondant cake, and offering floral suggestions that sound kind of expensive. Sensing Lauren's distress, Madison eventually offers to pay half the cost of the shower. But the remainder's still much more than Lauren ever planned to spend, and now both Mom [url=http://www.riad-marrakesh.fr]abercrombie pas cher[/url] and hostess are feeling a little resentful.
Read our tale of three baby showers below and you'll avoid the worst pitfalls, bring close friends even closer and still have the shower of your dreams.
Moral of the Story: Knowing she needed to handle the details herself led to a warm stash of memories from preparing the party, and even more from the actual event. Kelly adored every minute of it.
Moral of the story: Micro-managing showers through a "front person" is a recipe for disaster, and your friends should never be asked to host a gala event. Galas need to be funded by the mom-to-be or her close family relatives ... never, ever friends.
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Etiquette-Friendly Twist: What if you're set on that perfect shower of your dreams, but want to let your friends lend a hand? Cover the costs yourself, let them contribute a modest amount (in food, labor or money, whichever they prefer), then give them all the credit as hostesses. Sneaky? Yes, but it's so generous we think Miss Post herself would approve.
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Now Lauren's really starting to stress. She knows it's extremely poor etiquette to ask shower attendees to pay for their meal, but there's no way Lauren can cover food for [url=http://www.pollinate.it/category/moncler-outlet-online/]moncler outlet online[/url] 75 at Chez Henri's.
In fact, the whole point of the shower has undergone a transformation. Some young moms-to-be depend on its bounty to get ready for baby, while others want a [url=http://www.sandvikfw.net/shopuk.php]hollister outlet sale[/url] more social, upscale event just to celebrate. Misunderstandings abound, which sadly, can strain old friendships.
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In preparation for the party, the hostesses whip up some finger food, fruit punch and iced teas. They snag some inexpensive fresh flowers from a farmer's market, bake a cake, and hand out homemade cookies for favors. They've planned a few games to pass the time, with prizes sourced from the dollar store.
Madison, 26, had a five star wedding, with magazine-worthy photos to prove it. She's seen plenty of pics of truly stylish baby showers, and she'd love one of her own. In fact, she'd really rather do this party herself, but knows that's considered less than kosher.
1) Tana's Old-School, Stress-Free Shower
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