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What You'll Want to Know about Divorce Lawyers, Domestic Violence and Child CustodyArticle [url=http://people.irisa.fr/Francois.Bodin/?p=48#comment-448619]Get My Ex Boyfriend Back - Learn the Secrets of Success - written by Daniel Stuull Jackson[/url] Summary: If you are headed [url=http://www.diecastlinks.co.uk]hollister uk[/url] to family court with domestic violence, you will want to know the ploys of divorce lawyers before you engage your attorney. The insights in this article will help you see the relationship between child custody and domestic violence.
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The family court nightmare leading up to my exile has lots of people scratching their heads wondering what actually happened. I detail all of it in All But My Soul: Abuse Beyond Control, but the whole story is so heart-wrenching that many people are blown away before they fully digest the final ploy.
And knowing this final ploy is an important piece that could best benefit you if you are headed to family court with domestic violence in your relationship. There's a lot you can learn from this story to hold your own and save your own.
After 11 years of family violence, I was in family court wherein I received four Orders of Protection for my children and me over four solid years. However, all awhile we lived under the blanket of "protection" my then-husband was granted permission to destroy our contact with one another.
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He got a civil finding of abuse because of the court-documented abuse to our three minor children and to myself. He was removed from the marital residence and given supervised visitation. But that didn't stop the domestic abuse. No, that just made for a different avenue to prevail...to save face and to regain control over the family.
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To "prepare" for a so-called custody battle, the court removed the children from both parents to take them out of the "stress of the litigation." That meant that the children were removed from my custody, as I was the custodial parent during the entire four years of the proceedings (in which nothing was actually litigated).
Then, when my counsel pointed out that you cannot legally remove children from a parent NOT found to be unfit, the judge consented to reverse his ruling. But the "reversal" was another ploy.
Now a true reversal of a ruling would be to give them back to me as they were taken from me, but instead they were simply handed over to my ex. Thus, they were essentially removed from my custody WITHOUT a hearing.
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After fully denying my access to my children and legal remedy for this violation, I fled the state at the recommendation of the domestic violence shelter. They obviously saw the next ploy coming.
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