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She never responded.
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I went out, spent two hours with someone, we had a nice night and got to know each other a little bit, and I guess that the chemistry just wasn't there for her. That's fine! It didn't ruin my day or bum me out.
I didn't email all of my friends obsessing about it, asking what I did wrong or lamenting about why she didn't email me back. I didn't overanalyze every second of the date, thinking that I shouldn't have said this, or that I should have said that. I just let it go.
This is what I think so many of you out there have never learned. Let it go! Why are you obsessing about someone who doesn't want to obsess about you? Would you ever go out with someone that obsessed about you? It's not healthy!
You need to learn to let things go and not care. It's really not that important. If you go out with somebody and you just don't connect - it's fine! Even if you think you connect and nothing happens - it's fine! If the other person doesn't feel the same way that you do - it's okay!
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