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Jerry Seinfeld famously joked that at a funeral, the average person would rather be in the casket than giving the eulogy. Indeed, according to national surveys the fear of public speaking is America's greatest fear, surpassing the fear of illness, fear of flying, fear of terrorism, and amazingly, the fear of death [url=http://www.moncleroutletosterblade.com]moncler[/url] itself.
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How You Create Fear
To beat your fear of speaking in public, you first need to understand how you create fear in your mind and in your body. The way you feel at any moment in time is a direct result of two things: your Focus and your Physiology. Focus is the way you are using your mind: what you are thinking, and the language you use inside your head. Physiology is the way you are using your body: your posture, your breathing, and even things like how tired you are.
Every feeling you have is a result of a recipe composed of the Focus & Physiology you are using at that moment. Change Physiology and Focus and immediately your feelings change.
It is physiologically impossible to feel afraid while moving around with your head up, breathing full healthful breaths and thinking and talking about things you are happy and excited about. Try it and see.
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The answer is Anchoring, a simple technique that taps into your neurology's system for linking feelings to experience. You have already experienced anchoring thousands of times. It works like this: whenever something unique happens and you are in an intense emotional state your nervous system creates a link between the two.
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In this case your mind created a link - an anchor - between a powerful feeling and a stimulus.
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This technique works like a savings account. The more you put into it, the more useful it becomes.
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Why not give it a try?
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