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You are deemed lazy or irresponsible if you have not prepared toacquire that contagious, debilitating disease called retirement- a political absurdity of the Depression Era thatshort-circuits the life and potential of many capable peopleand, burdens society in too many ways to count.
But for now, tradition and custom still dominate. You know theroutine: Around age 50 an accelerating number of sound bites,events and dire warnings about inescapable problems and pitfallsof aging are relentless reminders life is winding down.
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The American way of aging, steeped in stultifying tradition andflawed conventional wisdom of a bygone era, is slowly changing.
You drop something and immediately declare, "I must be gettingold." Young people drop things all the time and don't imaginethey are getting old. They just bend over and pick it up. Youthdoesn't sweat the small stuff - why should you?
Expression of amazement for age-related competence ispatronizing. Ability should be valued for what it is, withoutreference to chronological age. That point will be reached whenmore influential and outspoken mature role models come out ofthe "old age" closet and show, if not flaunt, what they andothers are capable of accomplishing. They need to help establishan enlightened society in which healthy, productive [link widoczny dla zalogowanych] aging is nolonger newsworthy as something special. It will open doors ofopportunity and possibilities now closed [link widoczny dla zalogowanych] to valuable andtalented people afflicted [link widoczny dla zalogowanych] with nothing more incapacitating thanadvanced chronological age.
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